He told her again and again “Tie my shoelaces together, please.” She refused, which was completely reasonable.
He was being utterly unreasonable.
“I need someone to tie them together!” He shouted at her. She was close to his face, arguably too close. His breath smelled of the cheese they shared yesterday evening, which gave her the sneaking suspicion that he hadn’t brushed his teeth again. She asked him if he’d brushed his teeth. “Have you brushed your teeth this morning, or last night?”
He didn’t respond, but she thought she spot a subtle head shake. Probably just to confirm the negligence to himself.